The more we rely on, the weaker we are. Yes, you can say if being strong means living without enjoyment. Without gadgets. Without games. Without alcohol and cigarettes. Without women. Without men. Then life isn’t worth living. Then you’ll rather be weak. I agree.
Unfortunately, you have not seen the truth. The truth where sometimes, it is not up to us to choose what we have or not. We can increase or decrease the probability or prolong the occurence from happening. But we cannot stop it from happening. We cannot guarantee by exercising and eating well, we won’t fall sick. We cannot guarantee that if we check our cars everyday, they won’t breakdown.
So, are we doomed?
But we should work towards reducing our reliance on the things we possess and desire.
You see some kids when they are having their meals, once their parents take away their iPad, they throw their tantrum and refuse to eat. Aren’t we all like this? Once our stimulation is taken away from us, we feel suffocating. Take away our cigarettes and we start having mood swings. Take away our alcohol and we start fighting.
Then, there’s other kids who can eat quietly on the dining table without any cartoons or toys.
Think of the things that you have. If they are taken away from you, how much suffering will that cause? How will you manage the loss?